You want to succeed. Yet, you’re afraid to make mistakes. You make elaborate plans about how everything will happen with her… how you are going to kiss her… how you are going to touch her… at which date you are going to have sex with her and what kind of relationship the 2 of you are going to have.
You think you are a wizzard to know the future? Bullshit! The only value you can bring, the only moment in which you can truly be strong, efficient and successful is IN THE PRESENT.
Forget perfect plans that you never start taking action about or the ones you keep postponing.
MAKE MISTASKES NOW RATHER THAN BEING PERFECT TOMORROW
As an international trainer very well put it: THE ONLY WAY TO SUCCEED FASTER IS TO FAIL FASTER!
Rather than holding the fear of mistaking and not learn anything on the long term, make mistakes now and learn from them.
THe more you try to avoid making mistakes, the less you learn and the more you inhibit yourself. By doing that you remain stuck in the cage you are creating for yourself, the cage around you that is getting thicker and thicker as time goes by…
Free yourself, Take risks, Make mistakes, Learn…
This is the magical pill of evolution 
Have YOU done enough mistakes in order to be successful?