I know what it’s like …

You met a girl, you started a relationship with her… You made big hopes about that relationship, maybe you even thought of having a family with her… But now she left you.

How do you get over it?

The first step the majority does is to believe it is 100% their fault, the fault of having lost control and that they should never do that again!

There are voices in the Seduction Community that say that:

“When you fall in love, the women will run all over you, she will control you and you will lose all your pride and character”

Unfortunately or Fortunately, this statement is both true and false .

Indeed, it’s not good to fall in love with ANY WOMAN. It is not good to make her your universe or to raise her on an unworthy high piedestal. Most times, she doesn’t even want that from you. She just wants to be equal with you, nothing more, nothing less. And if she does want something else, I don’t think it’s the kind of woman you are looking for.

A woman may run all over you, that is true… but this will happen only if the women is manipulative and you as a man accept these manipulations, because you as well are not 100% direct and honest, so you are being manipulative as well.

A women may control you and you may control her.

But I don’t hink you would want a woman who is beneath you, a woman you can too easily control… It’s fun to have that kind of woman once, twice… but after a few years you will get bored of this… You will want to be surprised. At first for your experience, and for satisfying your ego, to forget the pain you felt in the past with the women that hurt you it may be ok to do this… but never forget what you truly want inside and what your objective is…

If a woman is controlling you, that is not ok. It means you are not being ASSERTIVE enough. You are not asking for your rights. This is another problem. EVERYTHING HAS TO BE NEGOCIATED! WHAT YOU WANT… WHAT SHE WANTS… WHAT IS EQUAL, CORRECT AND GOOD FOR BOTH .

And my dear reader… until you can start to offer an EQUAL and BEAUTIFUL relationship… until you can become ASSERTIVE and RELAXED in a relationship… you need experience… life experience… emotional experience… emotional control and a good knowledge of human psychology. That may be the reason why you are reading this now.

If you’re not there yet… if you’re not EMOTIONALLY MATURE yet, work on that now! Apply my advice into practise and develop your emotional intelligence, develop your capacity of CONSISTENT ACTION! You will need this in everything you do.

In other words…

It is OK to fall in love… when you have enough experience…

1. Because then you will have lots of alternatives… you can start a new relationship everytime you need one… or you can have one night stands… if that’s what your ego needs to get more detached.

2. You will know why you are choosing a woman… and you will know why you want or don’t want to stay with her… and especially you will know what you expect in return to what you are offering…

and last but not the least you will have DIGNITY to depart from all relationships that do not fulfill 100% of all your wishes…

So, do you still fall in love?