How to create a Deep & Authentic Connection with a Woman
Author: Sorin // Category: Connection
I was recently asked by someone, how can one create connection with a woman so that she falls in love with you…
I will tell you what I also told him…
To begin with, emotions are something very abstract…
They’re subjective, and our own perception on the things that happens to us. In subjectivity we as people, we are often very simillar.
That’s why it’s easier to connect on subjectivity than on objectivity.
When we resonate with a woman we become subjective, our objective judging reasoning disappears and we become relaxed children, happy of such a bond… we become spontaneous, authentic, original… without any fear, without dominating… us in our purity as well as in our maturity…
People who talk concrete, objective things are boring.
People that talk about powerful positive emotions from their experience are very interesting, downright fascinating. The more intense the emotion you’re talking about is(in a real way, meaning you already felt it in the past), the more contagious it becomes for your conversation partener.
The majority of men act robotically with women, using sets of learnt mechanical steps. Women want naturalness, a smooth and slow transition from the first word until sex…
The truth is that, 80% of the Game of Seduction is Connection and only 20% is the attraction she feels towards you…
You have to lead the emotions. You have to first open up, and tell stories of your emotions from the past (challenge, passion, enthusiasm, joy, funny-ridiculous, etc) and only then will she trust you to tell you her stories, and esspecially to get involed in an interaction where you can escalate physically.
And if you fell she hasn’t yet fallen in love… ask yourself:
Have you ever genuinely opened up to her?
Have you opened up with strong points and weak points told from a wisdom point of view(the lesson that you learnt from them?)
Have you ever told her your life principles? Your strong values?
Have you ever told her about your childhood… your dreams and your fears… (the way you would say it to your girlfriend)?
Have you ever told her the story of your life and the way you see your life from then on?
No? Then how do you want her to fall in love with you when you have a iron barrier between you and her… that blocks any real and authentic connection?
And very important, if you want to have a connection… after you have generated an emotion, listen to hers… and then connect to what she said… and then listen to her… listen more when she starts telling her life, her dreams, her fears and her experiences…
LISTEN UP, STARE INTO HER EYES, UNDERSTAND HER AND MAKE YOURSELF UNDERSTOOD ON A PROFOUND LEVEL!
That is connection 
It is important to talk about your personality, to let her know who you are… to let your emotions come out… When you do, it will make it easier for girls and any other people to connect to you…