The first thing everyone should realise is…

REJECTION is fine… it’s normal… and it’s NO PROBLEM!
A girl that I didn’t know, that has no value to me yet, has said NO to me. Why should I take it personally?

I think the whole game of indirect is built around NOT ACCEPTING REJECTION…

But I ask you…

Who are you to impose to a girl how to react?
Maybe she’s on her period. Maybe she indeed has a boyfriend and doesn’t want to cheat. Maybe indeed she doesn’t feel attracted to you.
Or maybe she didn’t like the way you approached (i.e. your behavior… not you as a human being, BECAUSE SHE DOESN’T KNOW YOU!)

IS THAT SO BAD TO ACCEPT?

The more you accept it, the more freedom it gives you to talk to the women you truly like and find the one that has interest in you as well…

Yes we develop our personality and communication skills, but we never take rejection personal.

Think about this for a while… and you will find out DIRECT is a better way to go since you state your intention right away, or soon after you’ve opened her…

That way she has a choice … it doesn’t mean we have to hear YES out of her mouth… But if she allows you to lead her… by talking, by answering your hand shake when you tell her your name… damn it, that’s enough! That’s a huge YES! it’s subtle but it’s a YES!

Seduction is very easy lads, it’s not mathematics, it’s not A123 C123 S123… that’s a method made by and for geeks!

Do you want to be a natural confident man? Then try being upfront about what you want… in a relaxed and DONT-BE-A-JERK way of course.

You think you are a wizzard to know the future? Bullshit! The only value you can bring, the only moment in which you can truly be strong, efficient and successful is IN THE PRESENT.

Forget perfect plans that you never start taking action about or the ones you keep postponing.

MAKE MISTASKES NOW RATHER THAN BEING PERFECT TOMORROW

As an international trainer very well put it: THE ONLY WAY TO SUCCEED FASTER IS TO FAIL FASTER!

Rather than holding the fear of mistaking and not learn anything on the long term, make mistakes now and learn from them.
THe more you try to avoid making mistakes, the less you learn and the more you inhibit yourself. By doing that you remain stuck in the cage you are creating for yourself, the cage around you that is getting thicker and thicker as time goes by…

Free yourself, Take risks, Make mistakes, Learn…

This is the magical pill of evolution

Have YOU done enough mistakes in order to be successful?

Oh damn, if only this fear would go away for good, I’d be so successfull. I’ll wait until I can make it go away and then approach. Yeah!

Breaking news:

Fear of approach will never go away completely.
And if it would then you will do a pathetic approach, with no emotion involved, no desire, no efficiency…
The idea is not to destroy the fear completely or to run away from it but to accept it and transform it into charisma.

FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY … as a title of a book goes on to say!

When you approach although you’re afraid and she smiles back… you get relaxed and she does as well, and everything goes on natural from then on…

I always feel fear of approaching and it’s still working .
Am I going to let fear stop me from having a good time? What kind of a man am I then?

Oh and another very important thing is… don’t approach women you don’t like. Approaching to get in shape, to warm up, approaching girls you don’t really like, approaches where you are fake, where you are lying to her that you like her… get the worst rejects because the girl knows you are not being honest… Only approach if you feel the girl deserves it! Very important!

Why can I approach after 1 month of no approaching… and I can make it happen?

Start being the man you were born to be. Make the first step, present yourself with a smile and be confident. And then let it flow from there …

PS There are no magical pills, just facing your fears until they become more and more comfortable

How beautiful they are you can check by watching THIS video. These are regular girls here in Bucharest, Romania.

The vast majority of Romanian Women speak English since it is taught to us since we are 12.

Apart from this let me give my guide to picking up Romanian Women in high class bars, pubs and clubs…

I went these last few days with a client that came at the 1-on-1 Seduction Training here in Bucharest, Romania in order for him to learn How to seduce Romanian Women, live, in the field.

We stopped at several high class clubs such as Fratelli, Bamboo, Gaia and I was happy once again to see how easy it is to pickup hot women in a high class club compared to what the majority of men think.

Although you may think you cannot pickup such sexy women without very expensive cars, whether you want it or not, you will not be able to drive your car into the club, for her to see it.

I’ve said this and I’ll say it again:

Money, pyshical beauty and humour are optional in a man.
Mansculinity and the capacity to create a deep connection with women, are not!

You will say to yourself that only gold diggers hang down there anyway and that they are escorted by fat, bald providers. Indeed, a part of them are like that, but you are not looking for a gold digger anyway… so why label all women in there like that when you can find a lot fo hot women who have a normal personality, normal needs and dreams who indeed have more cash than the usual girl and are looking for a man for their tastes, why on earth would they otherwise hang out in groups and talk the same boring things to each other every saturday, wanting so hard for a confident man to come and meet them and to offer them powerful and beautiful emotions.

I suggest to you that you pickup women who are standing, and who are in groups. They are those women who stay in groups of 4-5 girls and dance, relax and listen to club music. With a confident, sexual attitude you can break the group and walk up to the girl you like and create attraction and admiration because unfortunately most men sit on the side, drink their cocktail or whiskey and are waiting for some divine miracle through which the women will aproach THEM!

If you there’s also a guy or two in the group pay attention to his body lagnuage… and if there is phyisical contact (kino, touch) with any of the women. This is how you will know whether any of the girls is his girlfriend or they are just buddies. And even if you will not notice that, you will be surprised to see what a confident and relaxed attitude can do and when the boyfriend of the girl you are approaching comes up with an assertive, relaxed and respectful attitude you can get out of any apparent difficult moment. It has happened to me many times for her boyfriend to come after I approached her or her boyfriend was already in the group the girl I approached was in and no hard feelings were taken on any side.

All men have the right to approach. If you ask women you will see that they always admire men who approach them in a confident, masculine way no matter whether they do accept their approach or not.

If the woman is available she will give soubtle signs that she wants you to continue conversation with her. The most subtle sign is that she is answering your questions and talking to you, maybe the most important sign too. It is not necessary to see 10 IOI’s (Indicators of Interes – Unconcious signals of attraction that the women is sending), before it is ok for you to talk to her and escalate physically…

Women from high class clubs give out less indicators of interest because they are more beautiful than the average, they are more made up and want the man to do everything.  That means that you will never ask them anything… May I…? Am I allowed to…? Do you have a phone number?

They will respond to your request by accepting the direction you areprojecting with definite confidence. Moreover, a leader LEADS, he does not always ask for permission. When you ask for something and ask you do nothing but pass on the leadership to the other… and this is very frustrating for women.

Pay attention to the fact that you will not be able to hear each other very well in such a club. The idea is not necessarily to have a lot of rapport, but to present a sexual and masculine attitude through persistence in the approach, through a decisive, relaxed (laid-back) body language and through kino(touching her) when you are talking to her… Such a first impression to a woman doubled by the halo effect (generalisation of first impression all people do) will help you enormously in picking up hot women from expensive high class clubs.

The Halo effect is the effect we all feel when we see a beautiful woman. If she is beautiful, we think she is also interesting, a good partner, and may have many other hidden qualities.

With women, if they see a very confident man, they will think he also has a nice character and strong personality, and can offer her a wonderful relationship and life experience.

Use the halo effect for your benefit. If you approach in a weak way, with insecurity, and your body shows lack of confidence, hesitation or you give up too easily, by telling yourself NO long before the woman does… you don’t do anything else but create a halo effect against you…

If you give up so easily already… what will happen next… when it’s the time to kiss, to have sex… or enter a relationship where you may need to be a strong man and act for the couple’s needs… at the time when life may become difficult… This halo effect has a very strong and profound effect in the subcouncious of every man and woman… She will not know why she takes the decision not to see you again but you will see the effect in her behaviour by her ignorring you slightly … than openly.

You know you are approaching well, in a confident, sexual manner… when even if the woman is 100% not interested in you (she already has a boyfriend who she wants to be faithful too, she is not looking for anyone now), she stiill has a REACTION to your approach… she still feels your pronounced sexuality and enjoys the fact she is being approached by such a man even if at that particular moment she cannot be reciprocal about it…

How about you? How do you pickup hot women in expensive high class clubs?

What kind of excuses do YOU find for why you can’t pickup the hottest women in there?